Raising kids is hard. For me, one of the most difficult parts is when my kids go into silly mode. It’s that mode where they seem out of control, and they don’t listen. They’re only interested in bouncing off the walls and making each other laugh. During these times, my house feels chaotic and loud. My problem is that I spend so much time trying to suppress my kids’ silliness that I end up losing joy in the process.
As moms, we know bonding with our kids happens in those simple, day-to-day activities, but sometimes, we need to adjust our attitudes to experience the lighter side of parenting. Enjoy these 10 family time moments more by leaning into your fun side.
1. Eat together.
Family dinner time is more than just sharing a meal—it’s a chance to reconnect after a busy day. Sitting around the table talking about everyone’s highs and lows creates a space for meaningful conversations and laughter. It’s also a time to slow down, away from distractions, and be fully present with each other. And, it’s a little reminder that even in the chaos of life, these everyday family time moments help build strong relationships.
2. Read together often.
Look for books that you and your child both enjoy reading. Introduce her to your favorite book series from when you were her age or read aloud the next book from an author she loves. Talk and ask questions about what you’re reading! Reading to your child is a great way to bond and spark her imagination while building her vocabulary. Plus, it’s fun to dive into new stories together and watch her excitement grow!
3. Do chores together.
Doing chores together might not sound glamorous, but it’s actually a great way to sneak in some quality family time. Whether you’re folding laundry, washing dishes, or tidying up the living room, working as a team turns an everyday task into a bonding experience. Turn up the fun by turning up the music. And, with everyone pitching in, the chores get done faster, leaving more time for fun and relaxation afterward. It’s a win-win for family time!
4. Help with schoolwork.
Sitting down with your child to tackle homework or study for a test supports his education and strengthens your connection. It gives you a chance to see what he’s learning and the space to encourage and guide him. Plus, you can mix in some short brain breaks to boost the fun factor and the learning.
5. Start a hobby or project.
Starting a hobby or project together is a fun way to create more family time and spark creativity. Whether it’s crafting, gardening, fishing, or building something from scratch, working on a shared project gives everyone a chance to contribute and bond over a common goal. Plus, the memories made during the process are just as rewarding as the finished product.
6. Play games.
Playing games together is an easy and fun way to enjoy family time. Whether it’s a board game, card game, or your child’s favorite video game, playing together gets everyone laughing, competing, and unwinding together.
7. Plan a family outing.
Sometimes, we just need to get out of the house, right? Hop in the car and go for a drive. Prepare a picnic lunch and visit a local park. Take time to play catch or ride a bike. Go for a walk in the woods. Visit the zoo or go to a local museum.
8. Play sports together.
Whether it’s kicking a soccer ball in the yard, shooting hoops, or going for a family bike ride, sports can bring everyone together for some healthy fun. And, chances are, you’ll find many moments that bring out your silly side (or at least the laughter!). Remember that time you went to kick the soccer ball and kicked air instead? Or what about the time you went over the top with your victory dance after scoring a goal?
9. Create a family time calendar.
Let’s be honest. Sometimes we need to put family time on the calendar, or it just won’t happen. So, post a calendar on the refrigerator and let your kids know what’s happening when. Everyone will love knowing when the next family time outing or board game battle will take place.
10. Pray together.
Take turns praying at dinner or bedtime. Letting your child add her creative prayer requests—like asking for sunny days or a favorite snack—keeps things light-hearted. Using family time for prayer strengthens faith and builds closeness as a family. Plus, it’s a chance to laugh together when something funny happens, like a pet joining in or a little one’s unexpected prayer request.
How do you make family time fun?
